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Anxiety is a friend?

Quotes from Anxiety: Your Friend in Disguise



Dedicate your time to waking up, not to self-improvement. 489



The story of good-versus-evil is broken and can't be fixed. The Truth is whole and doesn't need fixing. 489



The Infinite Good is the most important single piece of information in the history of the world. And the second subsequent and inevitable fact is that without an understanding of the spiritual meaning of the Infinite Good, anxiety cannot be erased. 486



We would have to forgive human language itself to break through all of these layers of ego programming. 476



Go for the goose, not the eggs. 476



With each and every married couple, I lay the foundation for counseling by teaching that their relationship is the perfect school for spiritual growth, and that spiritual growth is the purpose of our life here on the planet. 476



There is no way to be totally responsible for self without spiritual awareness. 475



Anxiety is the signal that you have tried to transfer the responsibility for your condition onto some other cause. 475



If you do not see that you are at cause for your condition, then you will remain stuck in the world of perpetrators, rescuers and victims. 475



Anxiety is our friend, our constant reminder of our ignored spiritual nature. Anxiety cannot be erased without a full spiritual awakening. 475



Victimization is the fundamental lie in the Victim's Bible 474



All of the ploys in the world to be a victim fail. All of our attempts to be blaming, excuse-making whiners have failed. In God's world there are no victims. 474



If we do not know that the power and peace of God is at the core of our being, then we will be restless, anxious, and manipulative. 473



We are ignorant, forgetful geniuses. 473



The two most important words in the entire Bible are found in Genesis 1:31: Very Good. 473



Suppose I sent you a million dollar message in Arabic and you couldn't read it and so you trashed it. That is the way our dreams are. 472



The greatest lost treasure of all times is hidden in you 472



But the greatest oxymoron is the knowledge of good versus evil 470



In truth, suffering is unnecessary and trivial. In our story of human victimization we have trivialized our Self and God. The Truth cannot really be trivialized 469



How to awaken the resurrection process? 469



Can you see the daily crucifixion going on in the clash between your ego and your Self? Just notice all of the stress, anxiety, violence and despair in your mind. That is the ego. Just notice your desire for something more, something better. That is the Self. Jesus was the hated and envied goody two shoes which we saw in the crucifixion; Christ was the phoenix that arose out of the ashes of the crucifixion, which we call the resurrection. 469

Suffering is an emphasis upon all that the world has done to injure me. 468



We cannot tolerate meaningless suffering. 467



No one who can escape the responsibility to wrestle with the meaning of suffering 466



Our experience of the Infinite Good is only restricted by our victim story of good-versus-evil 463



Actually the most powerful thing in the world is the human imagination, which we either use consciously or unconsciously, to our benefit or detriment. 456



Therapy is the art of alchemical change. 456



Mid-life crisis means that it has taken about 40 years to find out what doesn;t work and for the whole system to crash and burn, which is both the worst and the best thing that could happen to a human being. Worst, because the ego has to come apart, and best, because only as our false ego system deteriorates can the true Self become real to us 455



Dreams speak to us in a helpful but strange symbolic language from the superconscious level of ourselves. 454



Mis-diagnosis is the chief problem in psychotherapy and therefore the resulting self-treatment of symptoms is not very effective. 453



Egoland is the stage where all of the opposites play out their melodramas in great contrast and struggle. Some of the suburbs of Egoland are Stressville, Opinionburg, Judgeandjurytown, and Boredomville. 453



Finding out where we are living is a most important discovery. Wherever our consciousness is, is where we are living. 452



Where is God is a most important question. If you think of God about there or somewhere else or nowhere, you have a serious problem, because wherever god is, is where we are. If we are not living in Godland, we are living in an externalized state of mind called Egoland 452



The entire human experience is a metaphor, a myth, symbolic, poetic, ritualistic, story-like, an analogy, hyperbole, imagery, archetypal, oxymoronic, paradoxical, a puzzle, an interpretation, an allegory, a parable, a simile, and meaning-oriented. Nothing in the universe is literal and linear except in the ego mind. 452



Whatever is apparently happening at the ego level is a metaphor when understood at the spiritual level, an event which we created, which we attracted to ourselves, and which we need to learn to accept, appreciate, and love for our own benefit and growth. 452



In Egoland, everything we do is an anxiety-remedy activity, whether we are playing perpetrator, victim, or rescuer. Perpetrator, victim and rescuer modes of perception are self-imposed and self-limiting forms of drama. 450



Egoland is where we are living in exile, in captivity, in ignorance, in forgetfulness. It may glitter like Las Vegas but it is an invisible prison of the mind. 449



So where is the Goose? Just climb the beanstalk of your consciousness and there it is 450



This is Paradise. We never left it. We just ate the fruit of the story of Good-Versus-Evil and have been living in a nightmare, a bad trip ever since. With this fruit we dr

ugged ourselves into amnesia. 449



Now we come to the most critical question : can the ego be truthful? 447



This Good News has left its timeless imprint stamped into everyone, everything, everywhere. The Christ Imago is the hidden factor in everyone's psyche. 442



Sin is the direct result of mistaken identity and its power abuses 440



The real sin is not grandiosity but self-belittlement and belittlement of God's creation. 433



The mission of Jesus teachings, life and ministry was the revelation of the divinity of man. 432



The only book that Jesus wrote was A Course in Miracles 428



The ego is co-dependency squared 428



You make yourself sick; you make yourself well. 427



Anxiety is the most persistent and universal of all human experiences. Cracking its code, deciphering its meaning, and discovering its hidden healing message is indeed a challenging task and opportunity. 425



We are committed to the belief in our limitations. 422

If you are a genius and don't realize it, you might even think you are stupid or a dropout or learning disabled, and you would experience anxiety and try to hide it or fix it.

You can transcend your ego or self-image by shifting your consciousness through your peripheral vision to the field of the Infinite Good. 409



There is only one problem: the apparent absence of the field of the absolute and infinite consciousness, and the apparent presence of limitations and victimization. There is only one solution: the awareness of the field of absolute good and its accompanying perfection and wholeness. 409



All of my problems and solutions are invaluable signals that I am not aware at the moment of my Infinite Good. 407

The system that we are using is flawed, broken, dysfunctional, and deceptive, based upon profound ignorance. Our anxious experiences are designed to wake us up to the fact that the system is flawed. Your suffering is to awaken you to the flaws in the system. The purpose of psychotherapy is to help you discover the flawed story you live by, the story you are telling yourself. 407



If you are so fortunate as to have your apple cart turned over by a crisis large or small, please get your foot in the door and keep it there long enough to find out what this crisis means. And believe me, we don't know what it means. We minimize the significance of a crisis and try to hurry through it with a quick fix. 399



Every work dispute, every divorce, every legal problem, every traumatic memory, and every war is supposedly due to mis-communication. However, mis-communication between people is only a symptom of mis-communication with self. 398



Only when life gets very uncomfortable do we usually inquire and look into our mis-beliefs. Why should we rock our identity boat? 397



We live in two worlds. One seems real but is fictional; the other seems fictional but is real. World #1 we are very familiar with even though it is an ambivalent relationship; World # 2 we are almost a stranger to, even though it is our real home. World # 1 seems visible and World # 2 seems invisible. We cling to World # 1, and generally avoid World # 2. World # 1 is the world of trance, of hypnosis, of brain-washing and cultural conditioning. World # 2 is God's pristine creation.



The door to World # 2 rarely opens, unless it is by the hand of crisis, and it makes us uncomfortable. World # 1 we trust, but are invited to learn to question; World # 2 we doubt, but are invited to learn to explore.



The door between these two worlds rarely opens without a crisis. We devise all sorts of strategies and medicines to avoid or numb the pain involved in the opening of this #2 door.



We are heavily invested in our identity with the duality of World # 1. We resist the awareness of the oneness of World # 2.



What is the wall that divides these two worlds? It is the wall of belief, opinion, judgment, illusion, trance, cultural conditioning, and concepts. There are two doors actually located in this wall: the Door of Revelation and the Door of Crisis. If you do not go through the Door of Revelation, you will go through the Door of Crisis. The position of Spiritual Psychotherapy is that you have a choice of which door you will take, but you do not have a choice of leaving out or avoiding both. In other words, we have limited free will. You are free to go through both doors, but not through neither. This limited freedom is due to the Grace of God. 397



At any time you may ask yourself, Am I OnStage; or OffStage; ????

Onstage is the local mind, the opinionated conditioned story of good and evil; Offstage is the nonlocal mind, the way of wisdom, the way of understanding, the Infinite Good awareness. Onstage is the victim-production mind; Offstage is Freedom-Awareness. Onstage is the Adam mind; Offstage is the Christ mind. Automatically we are Onstage; only by choice do we switch to the Offstage or symbolic awareness. We are habitually programmed for the local mind and have to choose the nonlocal mind. After a lot of conscious practice, we can become spiritually minded; but it is still by choice. I would guess that 99.99% of our thoughts are Onstage, habitual, programmed, localminded, and matrix-sourced. Noticing miracles, synchronicities, and spiritual purpose is Offstage and conscious-choice sourced. 389



If I do not consciously choose to envision the Infinite Good, then I will be an automatic unconscious victim of the story-of-good-versus-evil and all of its consequences. 388



Anxiety-transcendence takes you into your spiritual awareness, into the nonlocal mind, into your unlimited potential, into the Infinite Good. The belief in abuse and victimization loses its power to create hurt, pain and self-defense. Peace and contentment emerge spontaneously from within. External control psychology is no longer necessary. 387



Hurt and pain are the consequence of our beliefs, of the story we are telling ourselves, not of outside circumstances. We are totally responsible for our interpretations of external events, and for the troubles, anxieties, power struggles, and hurts resulting from those event interpretations. Our story about life is self-created. We are the victims of our own unconscious story and for the painful consequences therefrom.

Is this good? Absolutely. If I am not responsible for my story and its consequences, then I am going to experience victimization and all of the codependent power struggles resulting from it. 387



A couple in marriage counseling were each saying to themselves. My partner doesn't care, is abusive, and I am a victim. They had to learn to change their self-talk to:

My partner does care, is anxious, and I am not a victim. 384



We are on a journey from error to truth, from fantasy to reality, from the story of good and evil to the infinite good. This is a return journey. We first journeyed from truth to error, from the Very Good to the good-versus-evil story. Now we are on the return journey home. 377



All anxiety is about otherness. All anxiety is about the beliefs and the religion of otherness. Awareness involves no beliefs, no religion, no story of good and evil, no otherness. 376



Are you upset? Then you are not in reality. You are in a fantasy world of good and evil Are you lacking? Then you are tuned into the illusion of good and evil. Are you lonely? Then you are into fantasyland. Are you feeling guilty or anxious? Then you are into the illusion of your story. Are you seeking? Then you are into the fantasy of forgetfulness. Which fantasy? The fantasy of otherness, the fantasy of the finite. There is no such finite, no such reality, no such otherness. Only the Infinite Good is real. You are It. 375



God is the supreme non-ego. Until we find the true God, how can we find the True Self? Impossible. 492



We need to remember our spiritual father so that our human father can just be what he is. We need to remember our spiritual mother so that we can let our human mother be human. 493



There are things we ought to remember and things we ought to forget, and we get them backwards. We remember the trivial and forget the essential. We should remember who we are, and forget who we aren't. But we do the opposite in this upside-down world. 494



There is much good to remember, but we are so preoccupied with the story of good-versus- bad, that we don't even see the Infinite Good, which is the main thing we have forgotten. 494



When we know the truth we will be free from anxiety and trivia. Since we are 99% brain-washed by society, we need a daily re-minder of what is essential and what is trivial. A Course in Miracles is a record of Jesus; memory of the truth for us that he preserved for us for all time. 494



If we forget our unity, we remember our separateness; if we forget our abundance, we remember our deficits; if we forget our infinity, we remember our limitations; if we remember our victimizations, we forget our freedom. It is wonderful that someone remembered for us when we could not remember for ourselves. It is true with every brother and sister, that you need them to remember when you forget, and they need you to remember when they forget. 494



Are you offended yet? Dr Joe's Gospel is designed to undermine, threaten, offend and destroy the entire ego system.. If this book does not bother you, either you didn't get it or I didn't do my job. This book is a frontal attack upon the Victim Religion of the ego story. Dr. Joe's Gospel is a challenge to all mediocre religions, philosophies, and gospels of repression and oppression. Dr. Joe's Gospel is the absolutely radical Good News aimed at the de-construction of the false belief systems in sociology, psychology, medicine, science, philosophy and religion. 489



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Our story of loneliness, abandonment, separateness

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The truth of belonging, oneness, unity

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Our story of lack, deprivation, "not enough"

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The truth of abundance, wholeness, holiness

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Our story of entrapment, stuckness, victimization

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The truth of release, freedom, individuality